deep into my shallow mind

Tuesday, June 20, 2006

AJA day


flashback black saturday 2005...

these 5 girls with nothing else to do decided to hang out in my house and rant our hearts out. i provided the place, they provided the food... (they brought bohol food! chips, supersticks, etc :p)

afterwards, we decided to have dinner in metrowalk. during dinner, we talked about our state of singlehood.

a brief background of S.A.W.I.:

there are 12 of us former paulinians who later on became ateneans (with mama b as exception!) in college, we were all single... technically. but we can't help it if some love issues come up once in a while... during gatherings (xmas dinners, bday dinners and hang out dinners) it would usually be just us girls. and we'd always say that next dinner, we'd have guys na with us. pathetic no?!

so anyway, that black saturday, the 5 of us were talking and someone suggested that we needed to do something with our situation. that time, only one of us has "graduated" from the group. and we said that we should all follow soon. so we made this AJA covenant. basically, it says that at a certain date, we would all be in a relationshp or have had a relationship already. it was a weird covenant with consequences and stuff. we wrote it at the back of our chicken inasal placemats and signed and kept it.

so what happened during that year?

one got into a relationshp (she was very optimistic during aja day.. and a little over a month later, she got a bf!) but it ended due to ... uhm... ugly circumstances.

another had her ex lurking in the background... and another guy (who she insists looks like bentong) thinking that she likes him.

one found herself a stalker. an obsessed stalker who rides a motorcycle and has an MD tucked under his belt.

another found a guy who she liked and appeared to like her back... but had a gf... and denied liking her and having something with her when confronted by people.

and another who liked someone who had a gf while this guy's friend liked her. and when she started liking the guy's friend, he got himself a girlfriend and things became complicated.

... the other SAWI girls who were not present:

as i said, one already had a bf before the AJA thing.

one got involved with a guy who had kids but claimed that he was separated from his wife.

another had this sort-of relationship with a close friend, but they ended it because.. uhm im not sure, i guess the guy wasnt ready and he was moving far away soon.

one got involved with an a-hole who she left but kept going back to. she liked another guy, but she liked this a-hole more despite everything he did to her...

one was too busy with what she had to do to pay attention to the guys who liked her.

one remained single.. happily single.

and another had a bf!

so now, we have 2 official SAWI graduates. there should have been 3... but due to uhm.. ugly circumstances, she decided that she'd rather be single right now.

hay, hulaan nyo na lng who's who! whoever gets this ryt, gets to date any of the single and ready to mingle girls ng sawi... kung girl ka, u get a chika sesh.. kung guy ka, u have to take one out on a date... basta ung single and ready to mingle lang ha.. kse ung iba single pero not ready to mingle e! :p